Don't Touch My Ice Cream

I remember being about 3 or 4  years old devouring a vanilla ice cream cone. Man was it good. A hot summer day and I’ve got this gorgeous creamy ice cream on a cone. This is every kids dream. Until I look up and see my mom touching MY ice cream. I snatched it away from her hand and said “NO!” She was unphased by my outburst and proceeded to touch my ice cream.

Obviously, I was deeply offended as any 3/4 year old would have been. Why was this woman touching MY ice cream cone? What I didn’t know is that she had a different perspective. See, my ice cream was slowly sliding off the cone because I had been tearing it up on one side only like any small child would do. She’d been watching me from afar and made sure to come slide it back over to secure it on the cone before it fell on the ground and ruined my whole day. 

I couldn’t see what she saw. Because I was a child and didn’t have the wisdom yet to know that if you only lick one side of your ice cream, it will probably fall off the cone. But my mom did. She knew that it would hurt me way worse if I lost my whole treat in one swoop. So she stepped in, in her wisdom, and saved me. Yet I saw it as an attack. I took it as an offense. Because I didn’t understand her motive or her heart. 

Had I known her intention was to help me, I would’ve probably refrained from screaming at her.

I would’ve gladly accepted the help that I didn’t realize I needed.

Maybe you see my point but just to drive it home: God is on your side. If you notice His hand on something that you love, trust Him. Even when it looks like a mess is being made or you don’t understand why the boat feels rocky. God is here to help you. Jesus came to save YOU. His intentions and plans for you are good. Don’t be so quick to get mad at God when things don’t go the way you thought. It’s safer in His hands. He has a different perspective, more wisdom, and more love for you than you could ever have for yourself. Let Him help you, beloved. Stop resisting. 



 "The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing." - Zephaniah 3:17

Behold, God is my helper; The Lord is the sustainer of my soul. - Psalm 54:4

"Is not the LORD your God with you? And has He not given you rest on every side? For He has given the inhabitants of the land into my hand, and the land is subdued before the LORD and before His people. - 1 Chronicles 22:18


A 5-day devotional dedicated to helping you grow in patience. Each day will focus on a different area of life where can learn to wait well.

  • Wait on God

  • Wait on Others

  • Waiting in the Process

  • Wait to Speak

  • Resting While You Wait

Scriptures, a prayer, and reflection questions are included in each day. I highly encourage you to grab your bible, look up the scriptures and really mediate on the reflection questions. You get out what you put in! Give the Holy Spirit time to speak to you!

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